A lot of the initial stages of my work with you involves a Soul Defragmentation process..
Let me explain…
So, we arrive on planet earth a happy bouncy baby, FULL of ourSELVES, FULL of Love, FULL of our own LIGHT. Then what happens?
Well, we enter the process of fitting into society. We are told to share, behave, don’t sit like that, stop daydreaming, stop talking to imaginary figures, don’t get your hands dirty, don’t be jealous, stop being a sissy, get better at school, don’t be so shy, don’t be so loud, stop loving yourself, study harder, stop with the questions! And it goes on and on and on! Arghhhhhh!!!
And so begins the development of what I call the:
The mainstream personality is the one you develop to fit and function within mainstream society. In order to do this, the human ingenious being itself must push certain non-conforming aspects away.. These aspects are sometimes known as ‘shadows’; at the extreme think Dr Jeckell and Mr Hyde; at the minimum think pushing away the BIATCH in you and becoming Miss Nicey Nice…
Until one day these aspects become so far removed from your Mainstream everyday self, that they become, dare I say it, ‘sub-conscious’… Submersed in the darkest depths of your everyday consciousness… Waiting, lurking – for the day they can begin to bubble to the surface and annoy the hell out of you!…
I call these submersed aspects: SOUL FRAGMENTS
SIGNS OF SOUL FRAGMENTS
Now, your SOUL yearns to be in flow again with all of you (i.e. mind and body), just like it was when you came to planet Earth.. Because it’s unrelenting bid is toward WHOLENESS.. So, when you have soul fragments – they WILL knock and nudge and bother you – because your soul is CONSTRICTED, SUFFOCATED, HELD BACK!
You must know that the soul’s natural yearning is:
EXPANSION, EXPERIENCE AND EXPRESSION
but the MAINSTREAM PERSONALITY you’ve got going on there just WILL NOT LET IT.
And so begins the dis-ease – whether: mental or physical; or through relationship problems; or TWIN FLAME CONCERNS; or addictions; dreams; nightmares; mid-life crisis; painful recurring childhood memories; trauma or grief – anything that has SHAKEN THE FOUNDATIONS OF YOUR MAINSTREAM PERSONALITY REALLY HAS COME BECAUSE YOUR SOUL COULDN’T STAND IT ANY LONGER..
THINK OF IT LIKE BEING COACHED & COUNSELLED THROUGH A SOUL DEFRAGMENTATION PROCESS
– A VERY LIBERATING ONE AT THAT.
And once there are no more fragments to meet: YOU GET COACHED THROUGH SOUL INTEGRATION & SELF MASTERY
Soul Integration sees you integrating all of those soul fragments you met in the defrag.
Self mastery is like an iceberg that is unshatterable: because the part of it resting underwater has found such unrelenting strength in its clarity & inner peace – that no matter what surface storm is being weathered, it remains unperturbed; and then even more excitingly, in true self mastery, the whole iceberg begins to expand as well!
So I hope this helps you understand more about the WHY of your personal growth process.
Please email me if you have any questions.
With warm love