Energy Self Mastery: When the Passion Dies
Have you ever wondered why you can be crazy intensely in love with someone and all of a sudden, ‘its’ gone? Or you can have an intense craze about an area of study, or a physical activity; or an intense desire to DRAW or WRITE; but then one day, ‘it’ just DISSOLVES?
Basically, the passion dies?
Well. What’s ‘IT’???!!!
But the ENERGY – the force, the ‘magnet’ that drew you in the first place!
So really, you know what’s the biggest problem then? It’s NOT THE ENDING of the relationship or the craze or the activity or the art… The biggest problem is the belief system around the fact that there is an ending – because in our enculturation process we were taught to believe that things should ‘last’; and or that ‘stability’ is most important in: relationships, artistic or sporting talents, interest in a field of study etc…
But I say to you this: Energy drew you to these things in the first place. So – WHO directed this energy?
Well, since it is your neutral devoted friend that goes off and manifests your heart’s desire – you did! To be a little more specific: YOUR SOUL’S PASSION did! That’s what.
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Because in that NOW moment, you needed that mirror of that person, or that experience, or that lesson… And once the need for it dissolved, so did the energy!
Now, let’s apply what I am saying to relationships: if the energy of your relationship feels FLAT, lifeless and WITHOUT FLOW – when the passion dies – then, my dear, it is perhaps time to acknowledge that your soul no longer requires the mirror this ‘other’ has to offer… And although your beliefs/programs will say – ‘but we are married?’ ‘but it was so intense?’ ‘but what about happily ever after?’ … I ask you to take heed: rather than looking at it from different people’s point of view, how about looking at it from the ENERGY’S POINT OF VIEW? And umm, mmmm – those fairy tales we were fed as children sure have a lot of explaining to do – with the romanticising and sentimentality they induced that stagnates us so!!…
So actually, it’s quite simple really: where the energy pulls you, that is where you should go.. Whether it is toward an area of study, a physical activity, an animal or a relationship with an ‘other’… When the energy is ‘there’, then there is something for us to learn & embrace.
For ourSelves about ourSelves. FOR US. For our growth. To shape us.
And so, the stronger the energy’s pull, the more we have to learn & embrace!
And taking this concept even one step further now is where the MASTERY can come in: if we work with the energy during that ripe time period, consciously, we can actually use it to shape us toward our ultimate desire for our SELF. This is energy self mastery!
When we work with energy consciously that way we are like blacksmiths using it as liquid cool fire to shape our souls, our Beings, into the masters we actually already are.
As an aside: when we get to this level of self mastery, then we can start directing the energy in love, wisdom and power. Directing it to create/manifest what we desire and push away what we do not! But at this level, what we desire IS in true alignment with our highest good. So the desire and event actually meet. Like an alignment…. But I digress…
In love, wisdom and power